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Why do some men and women experience a sudden deterioration in their relationship after becoming intimate?
Recently, many friends have said that Cat Brother's questions have been a bit "heavy."
So today, let's keep it light.
A true story (all characters are pseudonyms).
Xiao Zhang and Xiao Qian met at a friend's wedding.
Xiao Zhang was part of the groomsmen, Xiao Qian was part of the bridesmaids.
After the wedding, everyone went out for drinks and played games in the bridal chamber, creating a lively atmosphere.
That night, the two of them hit it off very well.
Under the influence of alcohol a

Has Cat Brother ever really thought about one thing since he was young?
Why are there Women's Day, Mother's Day, Children's Day?
There is also Father's Day! But there's no Men's Day?
Is it a form of gender discrimination?🤔
(Lastly, I wish all women a happy holiday)

If life could only offer one kind of lifestyle—
Which would you choose?
A
You make a lot of money.
Live in a big house,
Drive nice cars,
Dine at high-end restaurants.
Many people revolve around you.
There are many dinners, resource gatherings, and collaborations.
But gradually, you realize one thing:
Many people are nice to you
Possibly just because of your money and resources.
Some people praise you every day,
But deep down, you also understand:
They might just want to get benefits from you.
Even your current partner,
Although very excellent,
There are many things
You don’t dare to be complet

A question that many Chinese people spend their entire lives debating:
If you could only choose one—
A:
You are seen as very successful in others' eyes
Have a decent job
Live a glamorous life
But in reality
The pressure is huge
You're just barely holding on every day
B:
Life is quite comfortable
No significant stress
But in others' eyes
You are very ordinary
Even considered not very promising
Which would you choose?
You can only pick one.
Brother Mao is actually very curious:
What do you care more about—
Face
Or
Inner substance?
Or you can also share

A very practical question:
If you could only choose one—
A: A job you don't like, but with an annual income of 1 million RMB
B: A venture you really enjoy, but with completely uncertain income
(such as Web3, entrepreneurship, content creation, etc.)
Which would you choose?
You can only pick one.
Feel free to share why.
Brother Mao is actually very curious:
Between ideal and reality, how will everyone ultimately choose.

Brother Cat discovered a very interesting phenomenon, as long as Brother Cat initially focuses on traffic, my expression starts to distort🤣

If someone doesn't reply to your message, or reads it but doesn't respond.
What would you do?
A. Start imagining:
Did he go find someone else?
Does she not like me anymore?
Did something happen?
B. Maybe he's busy.
He has his own things to do.
You can only choose one.
Cat Brother, answer first.
I used to be A.
Now I’m working hard to become B.

Every time the market experiences intense volatility,
Brother Mao always remembers that year.
Back then, I lost so much in the stock market that I quit,
Using the remaining money to buy a few bitcoins.
Later, I got into futures trading.
Started with 0.5, then 1.
5x, 10x, 20x leverage.
Then I began to add to my positions.
When I hit over a dozen,
I started to think,
I understand the trend.
Later, I went up to 50x,
100x.
When the margin call warning popped up,
I stared at the screen for a long time.
Account zero doesn’t count,
The money I added back in,
Became t

Most people are not investing.
They are using the market to shame themselves.
When they make money, they become inflated.
When they lose money, they feel inferior.
Continuous losses lead to questioning the entire life.
The market is just a magnifying glass.
It reveals whether a person has a stable self.
Many people are not investing.
They are using gains and losses to set their self-worth.
Making money = I am capable
Losing money = I am not good enough
The problem is never with the account.
It’s about—
You treat the “result” as “yourself.”
—
A small rise makes you inflate.
A small drop makes y

Alright, alright, when will we finally reach 5 million in traffic? 🤣

Cat Bro · A Light Question
In your current relationship, are you—
A. Nourished
B. Drained
No explanation needed.
Just pick one.
( If you’re single, answer based on your last relationship.
If you’ve been single since birth… you can scroll away 🤣 )
——
A good relationship makes you feel relaxed.
A bad relationship makes you feel tense.
Right now, are you feeling relaxed… or tense?