Hot searches are really terrifying. It feels like girls are truly naive—resigning, moving, getting pregnant, having a baby—bearing all the costs alone, while the guy just calls her over with a few words and then makes her leave...

Thinking that pregnancy and having a child would change everything—how could it be? Now it’s all chaos, and the guy just posts the chat records.

“Unprotected sex willingly”
“Insisting on keeping the baby”
“Money”

I can already imagine the general direction of public opinion.
Don’t let the child become a shackle that traps you.

A child has never been a tool to “tie down” someone, nor should it be a chip in a high-stakes gamble.

The illusion that “having a child will change him” is fundamentally a double misreading of love and responsibility. If a person lacks accountability, a new life won’t suddenly make them feel responsible out of nowhere; if a relationship is already riddled with problems, the arrival of a child won’t automatically fix it.

For women, childbirth has never been a light matter of “a quick leak,” but a major decision that risks career, health, time, and life’s trajectory. It should be a joyful mutual expectation rooted in love and responsibility, a two-way pursuit, not a reckless “balance of power” by one person.

The ending of running away with the pregnancy is never a romantic scene of a domineering CEO chasing his wife, but a woman facing the chaos of life alone. The only thing tied down by a child is the mother—her nine months of pregnancy and the moment of birth, from then on, her worries and attachment.

Don’t gamble with your own life, and don’t let a child come into this world only to suffer a tragedy that could have been avoided. Loving yourself is the beginning of lifelong romance; first learn to take responsibility for your own life, then you’ll have the strength to give your child a truly warm future.