Not being so smart can sometimes be an advantage.

Not being so smart can sometimes be an advantage. Not being good at weighing too many options, once you set a direction, you just walk steadily down that path. With slower reactions and less clever thinking, it's not easy to be swayed by the wind. The "fool" who is calm, steady, and firm often truly reaches the finish line. They are less interrupted by temptations and less troubled by smartness leading to mistakes; instead, they progress steadily and carve out their own path.
We are always indulging in the past while hoping for a better future. It's like one foot is on the brake and the other foot is on the gas, the engine roars, yet we remain stuck in place. What is truly being consumed is not time, but energy. We need pressure, but before that, we must first lift the foot that has been pressing the brake. Letting go of past regrets, remorse, and self-blame is not about ignoring them, but rather acknowledging that they are behind us and we will not lose control; it is safer than we imagine.
A good relationship is not a fairy tale that is always smooth, but a realistic practice of deep companionship. When life is challenging, being willing to stand together in the wind; when each other is in most need, not being absent or avoiding. Even if life is not always fair,
When the other party is struggling, take on a little more, without worrying about the proportion of what you give, but caring about each other's state. A good relationship is not maintained by telepathy; when it's not so comfortable, choose to speak clearly instead of misunderstanding in silence and drifting apart during a cold war. Take off the armor, deal with the wounds, express vulnerability, and let go of the past.
There are not many people whose lives are perfect, and if you think a person is perfect,
That can only indicate that you do not understand that person. Everyone has their own happiness and their own struggles, and the stages they are at are different, as are their growth experiences and environments; there is absolutely no comparability.