Someone asked Teacher Ma how to avoid feeling inferior in front of very beautiful women.
I've never seen old Black and Arabs have such thoughts. When old Black sees a beauty, he greets her openly and confidently. Essentially, it's because men's self-castration has been suppressed, leading them to believe they are unworthy of everything good, with a low sense of deservingness. Overpressure causes low testosterone levels, hormonal imbalances, and long-term male castration, which has even become a cultural trait in some regions, resulting in men’s accents becoming sharp and high-pitched. In workplaces with high hierarchical pressure, you'll find that lower-tier men often exhibit these traits, along with a loss of interest and confidence in pursuing women. (Interestingly, pressure, blows, and bullying have opposite effects on men and women: it makes men more effeminate, while often making women more ruthless, losing their gentle femininity. When men are weak, women tend to become strong. Men who are timid tend to make women cold and decisive.) Seeing a beauty makes men timid, which is often understood as “This is the master’s woman, we shouldn’t bother her or have any ideas.” This is actually easy to understand; it’s a result of ancient social conditioning. Exactly, the upper class in ancient times wanted you to think this way—be obedient, don’t interfere with “their female resources.” Would you dare to look directly at a princess stopping her carriage in the Summer Palace? Would they cut you if you did? Kneeling when seeing a beauty is a characteristic of hierarchical societies. In medieval Europe, Don Quixote dreamed of a goddess, protected her, but when he saw her, he had to kneel. He dared not touch a beauty because, in his mind, a beauty meant “madam,” the wife of the master. Japan is similar, with cheer squads, a bunch of otaku with lazy elbows, doing bizarre dance routines, chasing stars, but never daring to pursue real interaction. And why do they like infantilized traits? Because infantilization is naturally associated with weakness. Women’s extreme vulnerability can inspire the courage of these low-status men. In fact, these evolved traits are often not flaws; in other words, feeling inferior when seeing a beauty might be an adaptive habit for survival in that region. Matching the right lid to the pot. Hierarchical sensitivity: men feel inferior when seeing a beauty. Similarly, women find poor men disgusting. In response to the pursuit of “ignorant and arrogant” lower-status men, in the 21st century, Yang Li invented the concept of “Pushover Men.” This resonates strongly. In other words, women’s subconscious culture also accepts that: ordinary people, when they see me, should feel a bit inferior. Don’t come over to flatter or pursue me; first, check your own status—do you deserve it? It’s not just about beautiful women; feeling timid when seeing money or power is the same. There’s no regional discrimination; this is a nationwide issue. The opposite of this phenomenon is the saying: “Power is the best aphrodisiac.” When someone has power, this psychological barrier completely disappears, often rebounding in a pathological way. You’ll find that such people have extreme libido—rich men tend to become corrupt. In these places, lower-tier men are as desireless as eunuchs, while upper-tier men have insatiable appetites, with dozens of mistresses being common. Japan and Korea are like this: lower-class people are herbivores, upper-class people are perverts with heavy fetishes. The Samsung father and son play with stars, pushing Snow Pear to the limit. In the eyes of these people, all women in the world belong to them. That’s why workplace sexual harassment is a widespread issue. The culture of confidently asking for photos with stars versus the culture of chattering and frantic chasing stars is very different. When society no longer tolerates the attitude of flattering and kneeling at the sight of fame or money, the phenomenon of feeling timid when seeing women will improve significantly.
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Someone asked Teacher Ma how to avoid feeling inferior in front of very beautiful women.
I've never seen old Black and Arabs have such thoughts. When old Black sees a beauty, he greets her openly and confidently.
Essentially, it's because men's self-castration has been suppressed, leading them to believe they are unworthy of everything good, with a low sense of deservingness.
Overpressure causes low testosterone levels, hormonal imbalances, and long-term male castration, which has even become a cultural trait in some regions, resulting in men’s accents becoming sharp and high-pitched.
In workplaces with high hierarchical pressure, you'll find that lower-tier men often exhibit these traits, along with a loss of interest and confidence in pursuing women.
(Interestingly, pressure, blows, and bullying have opposite effects on men and women: it makes men more effeminate, while often making women more ruthless, losing their gentle femininity. When men are weak, women tend to become strong.
Men who are timid tend to make women cold and decisive.)
Seeing a beauty makes men timid, which is often understood as “This is the master’s woman, we shouldn’t bother her or have any ideas.”
This is actually easy to understand; it’s a result of ancient social conditioning.
Exactly, the upper class in ancient times wanted you to think this way—be obedient, don’t interfere with “their female resources.”
Would you dare to look directly at a princess stopping her carriage in the Summer Palace?
Would they cut you if you did?
Kneeling when seeing a beauty is a characteristic of hierarchical societies. In medieval Europe, Don Quixote dreamed of a goddess, protected her, but when he saw her, he had to kneel. He dared not touch a beauty because, in his mind, a beauty meant “madam,” the wife of the master.
Japan is similar, with cheer squads, a bunch of otaku with lazy elbows, doing bizarre dance routines, chasing stars, but never daring to pursue real interaction.
And why do they like infantilized traits?
Because infantilization is naturally associated with weakness. Women’s extreme vulnerability can inspire the courage of these low-status men.
In fact, these evolved traits are often not flaws; in other words, feeling inferior when seeing a beauty might be an adaptive habit for survival in that region.
Matching the right lid to the pot.
Hierarchical sensitivity: men feel inferior when seeing a beauty.
Similarly, women find poor men disgusting.
In response to the pursuit of “ignorant and arrogant” lower-status men, in the 21st century, Yang Li invented the concept of “Pushover Men.”
This resonates strongly.
In other words, women’s subconscious culture also accepts that: ordinary people, when they see me, should feel a bit inferior. Don’t come over to flatter or pursue me; first, check your own status—do you deserve it?
It’s not just about beautiful women; feeling timid when seeing money or power is the same.
There’s no regional discrimination; this is a nationwide issue.
The opposite of this phenomenon is the saying: “Power is the best aphrodisiac.” When someone has power, this psychological barrier completely disappears, often rebounding in a pathological way.
You’ll find that such people have extreme libido—rich men tend to become corrupt.
In these places, lower-tier men are as desireless as eunuchs, while upper-tier men have insatiable appetites, with dozens of mistresses being common. Japan and Korea are like this: lower-class people are herbivores, upper-class people are perverts with heavy fetishes.
The Samsung father and son play with stars, pushing Snow Pear to the limit.
In the eyes of these people, all women in the world belong to them.
That’s why workplace sexual harassment is a widespread issue.
The culture of confidently asking for photos with stars versus the culture of chattering and frantic chasing stars is very different.
When society no longer tolerates the attitude of flattering and kneeling at the sight of fame or money, the phenomenon of feeling timid when seeing women will improve significantly.