Human Nature Unspoken Rules

1. Between men and women, the closest interaction is for the purpose of having a relationship.
2. You must get married, and have two children.
3. Besides earning money, studying anything else is actually wrong.
4. People who are too serious won't make big money.
5. Call an auntie an aunt, call a sister a sister, call a beautiful woman a beauty, and call a beauty a little sister.
6. Sometimes you also need to be more realistic and hypocritical, because if you don't do that, it's hard to get along.
7. When riding in someone else's car, close the door gently; if you close it too hard, others will inexplicably dislike you.
8. When the boss gives a red envelope, don't be the first to grab it; the first to grab will be remembered.
9. Don't help relatives find a partner; it's a typical thankless effort.
10. No matter how rich you are, when dealing with relatives, you should also understand the "Crab Law."
11. When two people chat, don't talk nonsense; when three or more people are present, talk nonsense.
12. Don't accept others' charity; what they give you isn't necessarily "good food."
13. Spiritual betrayal is higher among women than men; physical betrayal is higher among men than women.
14. If a benefactor helps you, you must "hold onto their thigh."
15. In society, the braver you are, the more opportunities you have.
16. When the doctor makes rounds, the less you pay attention to anyone, the safer you are.
17. After your son gets married, don't live with your daughter-in-law; understand the principle that distant relatives smell good, close relatives smell bad.
18. Siblings should settle accounts honestly; if you don't do it yourself and your wives do, problems will arise.
19. When giving gifts, for happy occasions, give cash if not invited or if you can't attend; for funerals, go uninvited and give cash; you can't give after the fact.
20. People who talk about righteousness and morality all the time are often hypocrites; they talk a lot just to deceive you into thinking they are virtuous.
21. The primary core of a family is always economy, not emotion.
22. Why do many women wear low-cut outfits but often cover their chest with their hands? Because they are afraid the poor will see, and the rich won't notice.
23. When going to the hospital, as long as the doctor says, "If you're really worried, get checked," you can actually skip the check.
24. Most poor people like to improve their cognition but dislike improving their earning skills.
25. If you do better and better, distant relatives will increase.
26. When parents succeed in business, only then do children realize what success is. Passing the family business is always a high-probability event.
27. Don't talk about poverty upward; don't talk about wealth downward.
28. No matter how good a friend is, try talking about money; no matter how much a spouse loves you, try without money; no matter how close relatives are, try borrowing money. That's how the world works—trade what you have for what you want.
29. Those who kick you when you're down are your own people; those who laugh at you are not outsiders; those who don't wish you well are your close ones.
30. "Conscience" exists if it exists; if it doesn't, it doesn't. You can't wake it up.
31. The essence of human nature is that the more decisive, independent, and confrontational you are, the more people admire you; the more honest, kind, and soft-hearted you are, the more people bully you.
32. If you want to borrow 100 yuan from someone, first ask for 1000; if they refuse, then change your request to 100. This is called "retreat to advance."
33. Two things in life are invisible: divorced couples and friends who turn their backs.
34. Big wealth depends on luck, medium wealth depends on virtue; small wealth depends on diligence, and windfall depends on courage.
35. If you want to get rich, don't work for others; working for others will never make you wealthy.
36. Be a little braver, don't be afraid to offend people; at worst, just stop dealing with them in the future.
37. Being kind alone is useless; you need to be outstanding.
38. If you haven't found a way to make money while sleeping, you'll work until you die.
39. Poor people don't act recklessly, and rich people don't act recklessly either.
40. The more monopolized a company is, the more it claims it isn't making money.
41. To chat happily with others, you must appear to be living a harder life than them.
42. When friends, relatives, or colleagues have a daughter, don't casually say congratulations; if they have a son, you must immediately say congratulations.
43. Don't think that familiar people will treat you well; sometimes, familiar people are more frightening than strangers.
44. Don't get too close to anyone, because you never know when you'll turn against each other.
45. Five friends are not as good as a dog; ten relatives are not as good as a credit card. Whether you believe it or not, this is reality.
46. Never believe the nonsense that "money is earned, not saved." If your monthly salary is dead money, where will you have savings if you don't save?
47. Those who look down on you are often acquaintances!
48. Without money, you're worse than a ghost; tasteless soup is worse than water; a kind heart is never better than a good mouth.
49. Capable people are shameless; the shameless are the ones who end up with no face. Those who value face eventually lose it; those who don't care about face eventually gain it.
50. Be a person with a winner's mindset: aside from those related to you and your affairs, don't ask about others; don't waste a second on unrelated matters.
51. Don't think about exchanging sincerity for sincerity; it often results in lessons learned.
52. Don't be too enthusiastic with newly met people; otherwise, they will look down on you later.
53. When interests are aligned, strangers become friends; when interests disappear, friends become strangers.
54. Be a little nicer to your daughter-in-law; your retirement depends on her attitude.
55. The rule of the Jianghu (martial world) is that people walk away and the tea cools—don't ask why.
56. Don't be too good to someone; the better you are, the less they cherish you.
57. There's really no need to go to AA dinners.
58. If your outlook on life, values, and worldviews don't match, don't speak much; if your positions differ, speak less; if you're not on the same path, no matter how long you stay together, you won't walk together.
59. Living in a community, give the security guard a cigarette regularly; when issues arise, it's easier to discuss.
60. Life advice: stay away from people who actively shave their heads; don't ask why.