At 2 a.m., my phone suddenly started vibrating like crazy.
"Big sis... I really can't keep my noodle shop open anymore. I only have a few thousand yuan left, and someone told me that if I get in now, I can make my money back quickly..." My cousin's voice was clearly choked with tears.
The phrase "last chance" instantly pulled me back to eight years ago—
Back then, I had only been working for three years. I went all-in with all my savings, believing in some "get-rich-quick myth." In the end, my account went straight to zero. I almost couldn't pay rent and survived on instant noodles for an entire quarter.
From getting burned so badly I questioned my life, to now being able to read the market's rhythm, I've paid a lot of tuition fees over these eight years. During the 2022 to 2023 crash, I helped three friends in situations similar to my cousin's avoid major losses—and even managed to double my own assets.
There are always people in the comments asking, "Is there a quick way to get started?"
To be honest, there’s no "guaranteed win formula" in crypto. But there is a certain underlying logic that can help you avoid 99% of rookie traps—understanding these things is way more important than rushing in to "buy the dip."
**Rule #1: First secure your “ballast,” and don’t touch low-probability gambles**
No matter how crazy the market gets, you need an anchor—a core asset.
It’s like the weight at the bottom of a ship: if it’s stable, your whole investment portfolio has room to grow; if it takes a big hit, most of your other holdings will probably suffer too.
I’ve seen too many beginners always thinking about finding “dark horses” or chasing “independent rallies,” thinking blue-chip coins don’t rise enough. The result? When the small-cap tokens pull back, they get cut in half instantly, sometimes without even a chance to cut losses.
Those who really survive long-term always put the majority of their positions in mainstream assets that have stood the test of time. This isn’t being conservative—it’s giving yourself a way out.
When the market fluctuates, you’ll notice: the ones who lose the most are usually those with the most aggressive allocations at the start; while those who stabilize their core holdings actually have the ability to seize real opportunities.
Remember, investing isn’t gambling on odds. First, aim not to lose; then, aim to win.
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MEV_Whisperer
· 8h ago
Seeing my cousin like this really breaks my heart... I've heard this "last chance" pitch way too many times, and every time it's just the prelude to fleecing newbies.
Eight years ago, I was the fool who lost so much I had to live on instant noodles. Now, whenever I hear these enticing promises, I can smell the scam from a mile away... Turning a few thousand bucks into a fortune? Keep dreaming.
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BrokenDAO
· 12-05 11:52
That's right, but just shouting this logic in a bear market is useless. The real problem is—most people simply can't "focus on not losing first," because that's how human nature is designed. When they see others making quick money, and you tell them to allocate ballast, they won't listen. This isn't an education issue, it's an incentive mechanism issue.
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MidnightGenesis
· 12-05 00:48
On-chain data shows that these kinds of stories play out every week... My cousin's several thousand yuan was already doomed the moment the contract was deployed. It's worth noting that this round of entry timing completely matches last October's cycle of retail investors getting fleeced—no surprises there.
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liquidation_surfer
· 12-05 00:45
That call from my cousin was really something, I fell for those same lines eight years ago when they said it was the last chance.
I absolutely love this logic, the "ballast stone" metaphor is just brilliant.
Here's another one brainwashed by the "doubling myth," it's tough to watch.
Mainstream coins are mainstream for a reason, makes sense.
To be honest, I've gone all-in on small coins before—painful lesson learned.
Cutting losses is really more valuable than chasing dreams.
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MoneyBurner
· 12-05 00:45
My cousin's situation really hit home for me. Trying to make a comeback with just a few thousand bucks? I thought the same way eight years ago, and ended up with my account wiped out, eating instant noodles for three months... Now, whenever I hear "last chance," I get goosebumps.
Think things through before building your position—a portfolio without a solid anchor is just a house of cards, one correction can cut it in half. These days, I stick to mainstream coins as my foundation, and only use extra funds to try catching the bottom on those small tokens... But to be honest, the itch is still there.
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Lonely_Validator
· 12-05 00:37
Sis, don't listen to that stuff. Bitcoin and Ethereum are your anchors. I've fallen into the altcoin traps too many times.
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Honestly, the ballast stone analogy is perfect—you have to stay steady to have a chance to turn things around.
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Wisdom gained from eight years of tuition. Listen up, cousin, don't rush to buy the dip.
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Limited gains on major coins? Still better than getting cut in half, haha.
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What scares me most are newbies who go all in on small coins—one correction and they're wiped out.
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You have to engrave "seek not to lose first" into your mind.
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I was the one who survived on instant noodles back then. Seriously, don't repeat my mistakes.
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NotSatoshi
· 12-05 00:31
What happened to my cousin is really heartbreaking, but it sounds all too familiar...
I've heard "this is the last chance" way too many times, and every time it's a trap.
At 2 a.m., my phone suddenly started vibrating like crazy.
"Big sis... I really can't keep my noodle shop open anymore. I only have a few thousand yuan left, and someone told me that if I get in now, I can make my money back quickly..." My cousin's voice was clearly choked with tears.
The phrase "last chance" instantly pulled me back to eight years ago—
Back then, I had only been working for three years. I went all-in with all my savings, believing in some "get-rich-quick myth." In the end, my account went straight to zero. I almost couldn't pay rent and survived on instant noodles for an entire quarter.
From getting burned so badly I questioned my life, to now being able to read the market's rhythm, I've paid a lot of tuition fees over these eight years. During the 2022 to 2023 crash, I helped three friends in situations similar to my cousin's avoid major losses—and even managed to double my own assets.
There are always people in the comments asking, "Is there a quick way to get started?"
To be honest, there’s no "guaranteed win formula" in crypto. But there is a certain underlying logic that can help you avoid 99% of rookie traps—understanding these things is way more important than rushing in to "buy the dip."
**Rule #1: First secure your “ballast,” and don’t touch low-probability gambles**
No matter how crazy the market gets, you need an anchor—a core asset.
It’s like the weight at the bottom of a ship: if it’s stable, your whole investment portfolio has room to grow; if it takes a big hit, most of your other holdings will probably suffer too.
I’ve seen too many beginners always thinking about finding “dark horses” or chasing “independent rallies,” thinking blue-chip coins don’t rise enough. The result? When the small-cap tokens pull back, they get cut in half instantly, sometimes without even a chance to cut losses.
Those who really survive long-term always put the majority of their positions in mainstream assets that have stood the test of time. This isn’t being conservative—it’s giving yourself a way out.
When the market fluctuates, you’ll notice: the ones who lose the most are usually those with the most aggressive allocations at the start; while those who stabilize their core holdings actually have the ability to seize real opportunities.
Remember, investing isn’t gambling on odds. First, aim not to lose; then, aim to win.